The only thing we can be certain of is change. In fact, change is the only constant in life.
After experiencing a grave change yesterday that I wish had been a cruel dream, I found this Rumi quote in my favorite book, Broken Open by Elizabeth Lesser.
Learn the alchemy true human beings know. The moment you accept what troubles you've been given, the door will open.
-Rumi
Resisting such change is to say "no, thank you" to life. Many of us practice this safe, predictable living, and yet, many of our souls are lost, grieving and frustrated. I know mine was initially lost in the murky waters of created by such devastating change.